Extramarital Affair

when we criticize or blame our friend has an affair with a married person, maybe you are suffering the same stituation but you never know. you thought you found your Mr./ Mrs. right, but maybe this Mr. or Mrs. right not RIGHT. he / she just wrote something on your memory.
we thought everyone SHOULD have a honest heart, at least to our family, friends we should have. but when lie something you can get some profit, then the problem is happen.
how can you know who is lie or honest to you ? hard to find, right ?

My Turkey Trip on Aug. 2007

this is my first trip to Turkey, spent 18 hours from Taipei to Istanbul. The way is long time to go, but my heart never feel I am far from there....

IF ~~如果

AT THE TOUCH OF LOVE EVERYONE BECOMES A POET

tonight when i surf on internet,

found a nice poem ( at least I have somekind of feeling on it )

would like to share with all of my friends~YOU :

IF – David Gates

If a picture paints a thousand words,

then why can't I paint you?

The words will never show the you I've come to know.

If a face could launch a thousand ships,

then where am I to go?

There's no one home but you,

You're all that's left me to.

And when my love for life is running dry,

you come and pour yourself on me.

If a man could be two places at one time,

I'd be with you.

Tomorrow and today,

beside you all the way.

If the world should stop revolvingspinning slowly down to die,I

'd spend the end with you.

And when the world was through,

Then one by one the stars would all go out,

then you and I would simply fly away.

如 果 (譯者：david kwok)

如果一幅圖可描述千言萬語，

那為何我不能描繪你？

任何話語都描述不了我熟悉的你。

如果一張臉可以啟航千艘船，

那我該航向何方？

沒有一個家如你般感覺，

只剩下你使我尚有方向。

每當我對人生之戀逐漸乾涸的時候，

你即來把妳灌入我生命。

如果一個人能分身在兩地，

我都要與你一起，

不論今天明天全程伴著你。

如果世界慢慢停止轉動直止死寂，

我仍要伴著你至終。

當世界完結的時侯，

每顆星辰亦一顆接一顆的熄滅，

而你和我也隨之飛逝。

Happy Valentine's Day !!

Sometimes we make love with our eyes.
Sometimes we make love with our hands.
Sometimes we make love with our bodies.
But, Always we make love with our hearts.

JOB & HOBBY

To have a job is happy & lucky at this moment,
but when mix hobby with jobs,
then it will not be so happy & lucky
coz mostly the hobby will disappear...
2 months ago I got a job
and most of my friends thought I was so lucky,
coz i have a job with my hobby,
but now, i think its not so lucky
why ? ??
the work type ? company culture ? colleagues
style ? or........ something you cant control ?

Teacher

Who could be your teacher ?
you can learn the old tranditional experience from a grandma
or you can learn a pure thought from an innocent kid
sometimes we get confuced b'coz we think too much
learn from a grandma, just do it dont be hesitated,
learn from a kid, with an innocent mind

Faces

How many faces do you have ?
1 ? 2 ? 3....... ?
I think everybody got diversify faces..
when you are happy, you have an angel face;
when you are upset, when you are angry,
or when you keep silent
you got different faces......

Misunderstanding

If someone got misunderstanding of you,
what you can do ?
Get angry?
Explain ?
Get bad mood ?
Feel upset ?
or just say " God Bless You " ?

A precious brother...

when you feel frastrated ? when you are happy or you are upset ...
who will be the first one you want talk to ?
your backup friends ? or your itimacy ? or your family ?
parents's arms, sister or brother's ears and friend's empathy...
all you can rely on...
but when we grew up.. friend seems be the first choice to talk with,
today, I felt upset...and try to let time pass by doing nothing..
but the air was frozen... I need someone to share with my bad mood..

I called my brother... my duffer brother
maybe he is a duffer brother, a serious guy always fight with me,
but he tell the true; nowadays.. who will tell you the true ?
only the one who really care about you.... my brother is the one.
he is an integrity guy, always said he will live for others
but, I hope he can live for himself.... can love himself more...
In his twenties... career maybe the important matter,
but love is another credit need to get.. right ?
he is working in a stupid country now...cant receive my sms.
so.. write a small poem for him :
for someone, maybe you just a nobody,
but for me... you are the precious one
when you are happy... you own the most beautiful smile face.
when you are sad.. I can feel your tears.
when you keep silent... I can read your mind
for me you are the precious one.....
~~~ from your duffer sister, 3rd & the most beautiful sister

http://d.turboupload.com/d/904930/4047679.wmv.html

TAIPEI'S CULTURE ? ? ?

In your opinion. what is Taipei's culture ? ?
pub ? lounge bar ? fast love ? .....
this morning, I found the other face of Taipei
Taipei is not only the above description, Taipei is full of arts and culture too, you can easily sit in a large, bright, and comfortable coffee shop, you can listen to the soft music or jazz..read a book or magazine, or you can just sit there doing nothing..

In your opinion... what is Taipei's culture ? ?

Casual in Taipei

Live in Taipei....
Besides complaint of traffic jam..noise
what do you hve ?
acturally, in taipei city you can find many beautiful green spots near your place
maybe you take it for granted and forget how beautiful the city it is...

Kids....

Do you really think every kid is an angel ?
right.... every kid is an angel,
but, not every angel to be loved by the world.....
ANGEL CAN FIND A WAY TO LIVE...

Friendship Day

Today is Friendship Day,
Did you send your blessing or greeting to your friends ?
if not yet... remember send it
if you received your friend's blessing or greeting
remember reply it...

most of people like to receive mails from friends
but when you receive friend's mail,
whats your respond ??
keep ?! delete ?! no feeling.. treat the mails just like junk mails ?!
now.. think about yourself...
if you send a mail to your friend
would you like to receive friend's reply ?
if yes...
then remember next time when you receive mail from your friend
REPLY IT !!!!

whats friend for ??
Sheryl Crow & Sting : always on your side... is my favor song
hope everybody has a good friend always on your side..

Sheryl Crow and Sting :Wildflower :'Always on Your Side' (MV)
http://d.turboupload.com/d/856295/10_Always_on_Your_Side.wma.html (MP3)

Near Death Experiences

what is the experience of near death ?
have you ever been experienced that ?
sometimes death is another side of life

this Thursday i had the most delicious food in the world
but after having the food 30 mins later
I experienced the worse thing also
I started vomitting & diarrhea..
I cant stop the " shit " pouring out
and i cant stop the " bomb " in my stomach
I was too weak to do anything even to call a doctor
only one thing I can do is pray to the God.....
I know in the mid-night only God can release me..

I'd love to share the " Amazing Grace " with you~~my friends
http://d.turboupload.com/d/846215/15_22855300642468120856.wma.html

BELATED....

how many belated action do you have ?
a belated birthday blessing...
a belated valentine's day gift..
a belated apology.....
why always BELATED ?
if you really care about someone, or cherish about something..
why need to give a belated action ? ?
I really doubt about that..

Many PEOPLE in & out of your life,
but only FRIENDS stay in your heart.

Chinese Valentine's Day

Chinese Valentine's Day is on the 7th day of the 7th lunar month in the Chinese calendar. A love story for this day is about the 7th daughter of Emperor of Heaven and an orphaned cowherd. The Emperor separated them. The 7th daughter was forced to move to the star Vega and the cowherd moved to the star Altair. They are allowed to meet only once a year on the day of 7th day of 7th lunar month....

No matter how romantic story it was..... think about ourselves, we are so lucky live in the beautiful planet, we can meet or contact with our friends when ever we want....

Happy Valentine's Day... to all my friends...

Love you

Life is Uncertain !!

last Saturday best friend invited us to farm to pick peaches with them & their friends, we had lots of fun, during we were enjoying the beautiful secnery, one of friends' friend suddenly myocardio infarction( MI), and DIE with 30 mins. I was so scared & flighten... how can a life so short and weak...just few mins ago, the friend was enjoy his life but suddenly......he was disappear from the world. LIVE FOR TODAY !! coz you never know what will happen in the next day..and cherish all you have... show your best to all of your friends & family....

Heart

what is the most important thing in your life ?
family ? friends ? money ? career ? or......
in my opinion, " HEART " is the most important thing in our life,
IF you dont have a affectionate heart to your family;
IF you dont have a honest heart to your friends;
IF you dont have a sincere heart to you caree,
then everything is nothing and easy to end up in a bad mood

do you remember the wedding vows :
I, xxx, take thee ### to be my wedded wife, to have and to hold from this day forward, for better or for worse, for richer or for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, till death do us part.
what does it mean ? use your heart to LOVE and CHERISH your belove....

Friendship

Do you have a backup friend ???

Have you ever been betray by your good friends ?
today I was so upset..
b'coz I suffered the above matter
but luckily I got some good friends around me..
one of my good friends sent me a nice short messenge..
its really nice, and I'd love to share with all of you

Feeling of love, moment of caring
small small sharing, stupid fights,
shoulders to cry
be together in pain,
these create a miracle.... called " Friendship "

thanks Amit.. for sending me this nice sms

the following link is from my dear advisor Dr. Lee ......
Kate Nowak Live More Abundantly; - "May You Be Blessed " Movie

Michael Buble's nice song~~Home

this song is for all of my friends who is leaving home for studying or working or .......what ever.. he/she is not at HOME.....